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>>Tips  Membesarkan Kolam Rezeki <<

"Seorang lelaki yang telah belayar jauh yang kelihatan rambutnya kusut, berdebu (tidak tenteram) dan pada masa yang sama berdoa kepada Allah sedangkan makanan, minuman dan pakaiannya adalah dari sumber yang haram, maka jauh sekali doanya akan dimakbulkan"

(Riwayat: Muslim).

Dalil di atas menekankan kepentingan mencari makanan dan minuman yang halal. Seperti yang kita tahu, makanan membentuk batang tubuh manusia. Membentuk juga akal dan jiwa. Mempengaruhi akhlak seterusnya amal ibadah kita.  

Bak kata salah seorang mentor saya, #Prof Dr Muhaya: 

"Setiap hari kita wajib jaga akidah, ibadah dan akhlak kita"

Sesiapa yang memegang AIA ini akan lebih yakin dengan kehidupan kerana memperoleh ketenangan dan kedamaian. Menjadi insan bahagia dan membahagiakan. Bila bahagia, kita akan berjaya. 

Dan apa yang lebih menarik, ianya memang berkait rapat dengan REZEKI.  Kolam rezeki menjadi besar dan mengalir tanpa sekatan. Banyak rezeki masuk dan banyak juga memberi keluar. Seronokkan bukan?

Dan bayangkan sekiranya hidup kita tiada ketenangan dan kedamaian? Sentiasa berada dalam keadaan cemas, gelisah dan hidup sentiasa tertekan. 

Bilamana kita berdoa dan doa tersebut tidak dimakbulkan. Sedangkan doa itulah menjadi senjata bagi seorang Muslim. ALLAHUAKBAR!

Fikir- fikirkanlah 

Peringatan untuk diri sendiri: 

Jom sama- sama kita audit apa yang kita makan selama ini.

Wallahu a'lam

Salam Sayang, Azura Hashim 

Alhamdullilah.. wasyukurillah..

Assalamualaikum 

Again, another entry for today...

As i mentioned in my previous entry, now i'm listening to Prof Muhaya on IKIM. I realized, there are various types of human kind. The same applies to their problems. Ya Allah.. I feel very sorry and pity to them. All sorts of challenge... MasyaAllah.

Prof Muhaya did mentioned, a fortunate and bless woman possess

1. Faith to Allah

2. Husband

3. Steady economy

4. Children

Subhanallah, Alhamdullilah.. wasyukurillah.. too many blessings God has bestowed upon me. 

"Ya Allah, grant us peace and perseverance through our life "

~Always, see the world around with positive thoughts~

Alhamdullilah.. wasyukurillah.. Amal Basyirah, anak solehah, al hafizah... Aamiin..(this is a song that we always sing to my dear daughter)

Smile and be positive.. :)

Assalamualaikum and Salam Ramadhan everybody!!

My daily routine were quite busy recently. Woke up at 4am. To settle on the sahur, and my self been trying to do my write up before subuh (still unsuccessful, aduyyaii), do my pumping, and many other things. And after 6am my baby will wake up, prepare her breakfast, and etc. So by the time I send her to a baby sitter, she's done with shower, breakfast, drink milk, bersih tinggal tido aje.. senang!  But the most pity is my eldest, the school bus arrived before 6.30am. Hakimi's is at 7.10am and Hadif, ayah dia hantar sendiri pi sekolah at 7.30am. 

Every day I will pick up my kiddos before 6pm. Tapi bulan ramadhan ni I pick them up at 5pm. Rushing from UM. Balik terus masak2... Bagi my kids and baby makan, kemas2.. and quickly clean my self for solat Maghrib jemaah. Phewwww... heheee. Nasib bulan ramadhan, kalau hari biasa, the kiddos naik kereta dah jerit2 "lapar, lapar, lapar!!". Aduhhh... semua kena double laju!

A bit release for this ramadhan, I don't need to prepare breakfast for the boys. Makan sahur aje. If during weekend pun, such a bliss.. tak payah masak and kemas... That's the most critical part, not on the cooking part but on cleaning the mess. Kalau Hakimi makan satu dapur penuh nasi! Mmg kena mop satu rumah lah. 

Another person is Hadif... a boy with many things in his head. Sepah and melekit satu rumah kalau dia ada... With his experiment lah, itu lah ini lah... belum lagi buat air, buat nestum sendiri. And I was surprised yesterday, I found a mug full of water (ice) and topping with kurma, dibalut dengan tissue dalam freezer.. No wonder, I have to pick up many tissues sepah2 dalam rumah. And last two days, I don't know what was in his mind, habis 2 bottles of Amal's Sebamed baby shower and 1 bottle shampoo. Totally empty! Sabar aje lah...Kenalah beli yang baru...Hari ni aje, Hadif sudah masukkan a kitten dlm deep freezer.. Seriau ibu!!

And now, while I am writing this blog, my baby tengah nangis2 minta dukung. She's now very the manja, she recognised people around her. And totally reject other people, only her Ibu. Layan ajee laa..Btw, this week the baby sitter is on leave since there's a case of penyakit kuku dan mulut happened. I have to be at home looking after the kiddos. 

I do admit, taking care our kiddos mmg mencabar and memerlukan kesabaran yang tinggi.. What I wrote here is just a part and parcel of the story. Belum cerita lebih2 lagi...Being maidless, with busy husband... my work, my theses, baby, the boys, house chores, being a daughter to my parents, a grandchild to my granny, a DIL to my PIL... and etc.. (hehe, sometimes I do over, right?). 

I do salute those people with many kids, and yet they are multi tasking. Hope I can be like one of them. InsyaAllah..I am trying to be a good mother, tak nak marah- marah (this really challenged me, with the boys in the house?? huh!), jaga mulut, do not yell to the kiddos, make sure the house is clean, cook them a good food and etc. I hope i can take all these responsibilities well. Smile and always be positive, InsyaAllah...

Semoga Allah permudahkan segala urusan dalam membesarkan anak- kami. Semoga mereka menjadi anak- anak yang soleh dan solehah, berjaya dunia dan akhirat, sihat sempurna dan mejadi penyejuk jiwa, hati dan mata kami... Aamiinn

Holding my baby while writing this blog.... Macam- macam dia nak tarik... :)

p/s: Subhanallah, berkat nama "Basyirah" means 'PEMBAWA BERITA GEMBIRA', memang Ayah and Ibu sentiasa gembira especially when looking at her..Rezeki Allah kurniakan pun semakin mencurah- curah.. Alhamdullilah, Syukur...

what a huh!!

Assalamualaikum 

My washing machine buat hal since yesterday. That's the cons for front loading washer, it's damn sensitive.   (i'm currently using Elextrolux washing machine). Baju dah lah banyak nak basuh, approx 2 times of washing everyday. 

So, this morning, we've decided to send our bundles of clothes to laundry. You know, how much it cost us.. RM48. Mak aiiii... hehee.. But the best part, basuh siap lipat..ohhh what a bliss!!!!

Ok, that's what I call as kebahagiaan dalam keperitan... hehee.. 

Our usual weekend...smile and be positive ^-^

Assalamualaikum and Holla..!!!!

Alhamdullilah...it's happy sunday morning! Early in the morning, normally I started my day with... (sharing is caring..^-^) 

1. Bacaan mathurat

2. Solat dhuha

3. Mengaji sikit.... 

4. Jangan lupa minta doa supaya 

    - Allah lindung kita dan keluarga

    - dimurahkan rezeki

    - dipermudahkan semua urusan

    - diberikan yg terbaik dalam segala urusan

    - mendapat kebahagian dunia dan akhirat

    - diberikan petunjuk dan hidayah dalam segala urusan

    - kesihatan yg baik

    - terang hati untuk menerima ilmu yg bermanfaat...

    - dan lain2 lagi yeee...macam2 boleh doakan... (Doakan senjata Mukmin... gunakan dalam mencari   

      kebahagian dunia dan akhirat... )

Sila2 buat semua tu, jangan malu2...and my rule of thumb in life, never start a day with reading news paper and etc before Al Quran ... No, no, no...don't ruin your day with bad news ye.. (Itu semua pesanan dari Dr Fadzilah Kamsah...). 

Here, I would like to share my usual weekend. Biasanya mmg takde kat rumah and of course, my kitchen closed! Phewww..! Takde pening nak masak, kemas, lap, mop, basuh pinggan and etc kan. (Aduii.. having 3 boys, can u imagine how is the house kalau tak maknya rajin kemas.)

Usually, either we go to Mak's house at Klang, MIL at Hulu Langat or Atuk's at Pulau Indah. But, since my hubby is recently busy with his project, I am the one man show. Running here and there with the kids without him. No big deal... Naik kereta pun.. bukan kena naik bas.. Amal I put her at baby car seat... senang bangat.

Yesterday we went to Atuk's house... had our lunch over there. Balik rumah atuk best!! Kids can play2 and shop2 for junk food (ada kedai sewa depan rumah atuk). And the best part is, Atuk and nenek bagi duit.. yeeeeaaayy!!  For the kids and we, husband and wife ye..my hubby selalu dapat lebih coz he likes to layan my Atuk and assist Atuk of some property matters... ^-^. 

Usually, with the money I buy food and kids stuff...  For instance,

This is our breakfast today... A simple breakfast and the portion is just enough for our family. 

Amal cannot eat ye.. Belum lagi. But she had her breakfast, shower and now time for her morning nap. 

Last night our dinner jauh sikit kat Aroma Ikan Bakar, Pantai Jeram. Craving for their Ikan 3 rasa.. sedap sangat. But too many people, so lambatlah sikit dapat makannya. The place is more happening now plus they have band over there...

Layan ice cream goreng dulu while waiting for the food.. Dah lapar masing2..

My precious..

Yang ni my precious yang tak rugi kalau bawak pi makan... Hakimi makan licin!

tadaaaa.. licin..!

Basically this is how I utilize my weekend. Tak larat nak masak everyday. So weekend is my time off and give me peace of mind by bringing the kids outing (hehee.. sebenarnya maknya pun kaki jalan pun... alasan2). Apa- apa pun... keep on smiling and be positive.

Ok lah for now. Till then and wasalam.

My goals in life... :)

Assalamualaikum and Holla!!!

I found my long lost book, hidden somewhere between books at my work station. And suddenly....I felt there's a burning desire inside of me... (wah.. tetiba lah pulak). Telling the truth, since I got pregnant...hmm.. I don't really focus with my Phd. Cuma bila nak data collection, then I was damn busy preparing itenary, planning, finding contacts and etc. And at the same time, revising and finalizing my measurement for questionnaires. 

That was during my second trimester. I was so damn tired that time sangat2 penat especially in UK. I was there about a month jugakla...Giler travelling ..hangkut questionnaire yang berat tu.  Balik Malaysia for about 2-3 weeks, fly pulak to Perth, Australia again for my data collection and conference. Alhamdullilah I got 200% support from my darling Hubby.. thank you ..

When all that thingy completed, I was like garfield, fat pregnant lady lazying at home (sebab dah masuk 3 trimester pun). Tup2 bersalin dapat Amal Basyirah pun tercepat... hehe.. Again ..Alhamdullilah, Alhamdullilah, Alhamdullilah... Bila confinement memang la tak buat apa.. Macam princess.. semua pun ada orang buatkan. Pinggan pun tak basuh ye. Memang mengada. Even baby Amal's shower pun my mother buatkan..reason why? because czer..hehe, best kan...?

After my confinement, was busy for about 1 month due to analysing data and had showed the result to my supervisor, Prof MN. He gave green light for me to start with write up. Ohhh... then again.... relax2 at home golek2 with my baby Amal...(at the same time I do writes article to publish- 1 for 2nd draft and another 1 for 1 draft). Ok la tu.. really complacent me!!!

But now I've changed (insyaAllah... Ya Allah bantulah hamba mu ini untuk berubah dan bersemangat). I read back what I have written on that book. It's actually my GOALS in life!!!! Complete with my goal for 2 years mean since May 2011 to April 2013. I actually wrote that when I listened to Prof Muhaya in IKIMfm. Coincident, I had chance to join her seminar on that month and I have asked her to put her signature on my GOAL. Hehe.. semangat datang balik ni. 

Let me show you the written goal of mine...

 please ignore my bad writing ye. Kasi blur2 sikit sbb malu orang baca my goal. Lagipun pictures in this blog I snapped using my old iphone. 3GS aje pun. Tapi still Alhamdullilah coz I got it for free.... hehe...

Tu dia sign Prof Muhaya ye. And what you can see, one of my goal was... DAPAT ANAK. Tak ingat pun pasal wish ni dulu. Maknanya my wish  really came true!! Thank you, thank you and thank you Allah... :). The other 2, InsyaAllah.. coming soon...

Happy me with Prof Dr Muhaya.. 

Anything for my family... for the sake of Allah...

Friends, supplication to Allah is very, very very important. Allah will grant if that is good for us. Just let Allah....

This is my story ye..  dulu2 I once said to a friend that I will not got to any other countries, before Makkah. It's really happened, it was when I booked a flight ticket to Jakarta... suddenly I got the opportunity to perform my Umrah. And the the data were clashed with my Jakarta trip... of course I look forward for my  Umrah.. 

And the experience was not happened once.. few times I remembered. So, what I can conclude here... please beware with words especially for mothers ye.. Kesian anak2 kita nanti...

“Rabbana la tuzi` qulubana ba`da izhadaitana, wa hablana min ladunka rahmah. Innaka antal wahhab.” 

“Ya Allah, janganlah Engkau gelincirkan hati kami setelah Engkau beri hidayah kepada kami, dan berikanlah kepada kami daripada sisiMu rahmat kasih sayang yang banyak. Sesungguhnya Engkaulah Tuhan yang boleh memberi segala-galanya.” (Hadith Riwayat An-Nasa`i)

Ok till then. Wasalam. .

lil' princess diary.. ^-^

Assalam and Hola!!

It's been a while since my last post.. susah betul nak berblog ni. And I have many more things to do.. (besides my PhD and articles stuff). 

Ok.. let's start.. the latest product in our family was arrived on 11 January 2012. Amal Basyirah.. the name was given by my mother and it has good meaning too. My only daughter, she was delivered earlier than due date (approx 3 weeks) due to some complication. The process was very easy and quick (as simple as ABC... ). I had an appointment and was supposed to come with hubby. But, after done with UM thingy, I went straight to Shah Alam Specialist Hospital, meeting with my gynea Dr Siti Mariam alone.

During the check up, I was told that I cannot wait any longer, need to get my baby out asap. Ok.. my heart beat was running fast as I need to undergo c-sec (for the very first time...huhuhu) and my hubby is not with me! Ok takpe.. called my hubby to come and my Mak to pray for me. Luckily, our house and hub's office are just nearby.

After Asar, Alhamdullilah, BIG thanks to ALLAH!.. all settled and never thought that operation is so easy and less pain. Only the costing is a bit more..( but I do believe from my very own experience each baby brings rezeki to the family.. InsyaAllah... ). Here, I would like to share that I heart my gynea so muchhhh!! I fully recommended her to any preggy ladies out there. Reasons of choosing her was because I want lady gynea, and Islamic as well. I want to ensure that this delivery penuh barakah... wahh... statement gitu. After googled around and had my check up at KPJ (Dr Yen), UMRA (entah lupa Dr Apa.. x suka pun kat sana) and DEMC (Dr Zamri, very nice Dr dan yg sambut my Hakimi dulu.. tapi tak nak because dia lelaki.. A big no OK!). Lastly, I ended up with confidence in her. I found her via "Fatimah Syarha" blog. 

Balik kisah tadi, keluar from the recovery room, waaa... semua dah ada termasuklah my boys. I heard my Abah calling here and there informing that I got baby girl. He was sooooo excited and he even kissed me that time... I was touched.. sob sob...I stayed nearly 1 week in the hospital as my baby's was so light (1.8kg) and the doctor had to ensure that she in ok condition before letting her go... layan aje la duduk hospital...I had my confinement period at my own house. 

Mak and Abah stayed with me, taking care of me and Abah was the one going here and there buying for my pantang food/ fish and etc. My sister in law, Kak Mas helped me buying for  my jamu and etc. I took NR product for my pantang (since my 1st baby) and don't think that I wanna change to others. I had lost weight almost 15 kg during my confinement,.. heehehee.. I loiikeee.... :)

Now my baby is already 5 months 2 weeks .. time flies right? And I am very eager to participate with her growth. And I am like jakun with my new baby ... ala.. normallah.. this is my first baby girl after 3 boys. And I think maybe because of age factor as well. I delivered my 3 boys when I was 20s and now I am middle of 30s... aiiyooo tua already...

And I dedicated my blog for my lil princess (plus my not so boring daily life and research). I like to search here and there for her thingy.. and even dragged my husband from 1 store to another (tapi biasanya he just waited in the car)... busy googling information and etc... and now she's near to 6 months... I am a busy mother googling stuff and info for her weaning time..!! ^-^....

Amal, 4 months young baby in Singapore

Pic when she was in Bandung, Indonesia. She celebrated her 5 months there!

42 days of Amal Basyirah at her nenek's house - Klang

nothing to shout about me.. Alhamdullilah...

Assalamualaikum...

I know, maybe there is no one reading this blog..but never mind. I just wanna write what I want to write... :)

Firstly, thank you Allah for giving me this precious gift... Alhamdullilah... God answered my prayer... actually I have few wishes for this year, 2011. This year, insyaAllah will be my best year and also the coming years..by right, everyday should be the bestest day for me... InsyaAllah... :)

Talking back about my wish list, I have 3 wishes for 2011 actually... Among of the three, one of them will be the opportunity cost. I've prayed for Allah to give me the bestest among of the two. Which is which shall come first. And, Alhamdullilah... one of the wish, insyaAllah will be accomplished..and waiting for my other wish list to be achieved. Means, the opportunity cost will my coming years wish list...I am really dying for it, however only Allah knows best.

2011, this year will be a challenging year for me... with that wish list, or I can say it's my vision. means there will be a missions to carry.... many things to catch up...may Allah answered my prayers and straighten everything.. Amin...

رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِّن لِّسَانِي يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي

"O my Lord! expand me my breast; Ease my task for me; And remove the impediment from my speech, So they may understand what I say[20:25--28]"

"Hasbunallahu wa ni'mal wakil (Ali Imran 173), Ni'mal maula wa ni'man nasoir (Al Anfaal 40), La haula wala quwwata illa billahil 'aliyyil 'azhim". May Allah simplify and make easy of my life journey....Amin

Rabbi Yassir Wala Tu'Asir

Wish me best of luck!

p/s: Ehh.. what happened ek? I cant upload any pict to this blog... but no big deal... just stay calm... :)

What a great life, isnt it?

I have a great LIFE! With my lovely husband (love U so much babe!), my growing up kids, my beloved parents and family, having a good job and pay (heah.. I supposed)and what else... Thanx to the Almighty for what am having right now. Alhamdullillah.

It seems that all my touch is just a miracle and god really 'berkati" all my effort and actions (with the support of my dearest hubby..huhuhu)